Ben Heath's latest video flags a change worth checking today if you run Meta Ads for a product bought mostly by one gender: Meta has removed hard gender targeting at the ad set level.
1) What disappeared is the hard constraint
Gender can still be picked inside the suggested audience, but that is only a suggestion, and Meta states it will deliver beyond the selected gender when it expects better results. The "Further limit the reach of your ads" option used to let advertisers lock gender as a hard constraint. According to the video, that gender field is now gone, and the new per-creative age and gender setting is treated as a suggestion too.
2) Who actually feels it
Accounts that sell to everyone and already let Meta allocate budget will barely notice. The pain falls on advertisers who had to step in because Meta kept pushing spend toward the gender that engages but does not buy. It is the same direction as Meta re-enabling creative enhancements on its own: control keeps moving from the advertiser to the platform.
3) The workaround: a 90% bid decrease through value rules
Create a value rule under Advertising settings with Audience and Gender as criteria, pick the gender to avoid, decrease the bid by the maximum 90%, then attach the rule to every relevant ad set. At one tenth of competing bids, the ads effectively stop reaching that group. Ben's team uses the same trick for placements such as Audience Network.
From Minh's work on Messenger campaigns for DND International Eye Hospital, off-target delivery costs more than ad spend: every message still needs a consultant to reply, even when the sender is not a real prospect. That is why Minh treats value rules as a mandatory setup step to recheck whenever an ad set is duplicated, the same way fixing the conversion definition comes before fixing targeting.
The takeaway: on Meta today, targeting is only a hint; value rules are where the real limits live.
Frequently Asked Questions
Can you still choose gender in Meta Ads?
Do value rules fully exclude a gender?
Should brands that sell to everyone change anything?
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